The Kiss of God

A Christmas Kiss!

Hello friends, just in case you need a kiss, here it is!  When you love Jesus, and when you let Him close to you to love you, Christmas is every single day. It is not an event, although it begins there. Christmas is an on-going love relationship with THE Lover of your life who will NEVER leave you or forsake you. And it all began with a kiss!  The kiss of Christmas . . .  PS: I have included my Facebook live event on Christmas Day.  Much love to all of you, my friends!

Finding the true heart of Christmas

Hello friends! Christmas can be a mixed bag for everyone, but particularly for the women of the household! For that reason,  I wanted to share a recent blogpost I wrote for the website, Keeper of the Home. This is a story of when my son Luke was only a baby . . . and how I found the true heart of Christmas!  I hope and pray that you are able to find joy in your journey this season . . . a joy that is not of this world and keeps on giving! 

Knowing you are known is essential to the spiritual journey!

Seven Sacred Signpost # 1: Sweetness

As Leigh McElroy says so well in her book, The Beautiful Ache, staying in the journey of the Jesus life is only possible when we know what we know . . . the God of the universe calls my name!  When we are completely honest, there is so much mystery, so much pain, and so many challenges along the road of life (as He said there would be, John 16:33) that the essential SWEETNESS that we need to know is that we are known and loved.

Our names are written on the palm of His hand (Isaiah 49:16).  If you are not certain of this–for you–I encourage you to pause . . . pray . . . meditate on the Scriptures . . . and wait long enough to know all over again (or perhaps for the first time) that you are seen, understood, accepted and cherished by Jesus. He calls you by name!

Soul Care Central: BEWARE!

Sacred Signpost #5: Struggles

All of us have good reason to invite Mr. Grudge into the house of our soul. However, if we entertain him, allow him to remain even for a few days—and God help us—welcome him to become a permanent resident—we put our entire soul in danger!   Beware, beware!   

Mr. Grudge may appear friendly and compassionate, even comforting at times—after all, he seems to  understand our pain, and is always ready to affirm that we have every reason to lick our wounds from so and so. But here is the truth: he is the darkest villain and deadliest enemy—a FOX who wishes to destroy our very lives. He licks his lips as he eats us up.

This villain who disguises himself as friend has one–and only one, desire: to steal, kill and destroy our very soul! Mr. Grudge is a fiend of Satan who plants a bitter root that will bring us down, down, down until darkness and slime are the waters in which our soul dwells.

So no matter how comfortable we are with him, we MUST OUST him out of our house—urgently! He is poison!  And whoever Mr. Grudge came to discuss with us, forgive that person! 

Jesus, lover of our soul, has forgiven us . . . and Jesus asks, no demands— that no matter how little the person seems to deserves it—we must forgive as we have been forgiven. It is inherent in the divine nature to forgive. God is ready and eager to forgive us . . .  and as His children—loved and forgiven by GRACE—then we must also forgive.

Forgiveness, hear this, is the deepest expression of love. Forgive and we love as God loves. Forgive and we share in the divine nature.

So love, love, love!  Swim in those waters . . . and we will flood our lungs and life with light, and health and peace!  Oh yes, breathe, breathe, breathe . . . and the fiend will flee from the fresh air of forgiveness . . and we will be FREE!

Listen to this:

“Work at living in peace with everyone, and work at living a holy life, for those who are not holy will not see the Lord. Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many” (Hebrews 12:14-15).

“If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matthew 6:14-15).

Cultivate calm . . .

Sacred Signpost #1: Sweetness

It always puzzles me how Christ-followers can be some of the most most driven and anxious humans on earth . . . Do we forget that we follow Jesus, the Prince of Peace? “And His name will be called: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6). Perhaps that is why so many people are turning away from churches to spas, to yoga, even to Buddha to find the peace their souls are starved for?  And perhaps they would turn back home to Jesus if they see peace in His people . . .  

May our souls radiate the quality of calm that Jesus lived and modeled for us . . . even in the midst of constant demands, challenges, and opposition. Clearly, His connection to the Father’s heart and will kept Him in the vortex of sweetness and peace. Come, Lord Jesus, comfort your people with Your peace . . . so that we may be the lights of love in the darkness. 


Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives.

Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid”  (John 14:27).

Hard places and people . . . are an invitation!

Sacred Signpost #4: Struggles

In hindsight I can clearly see that every place AND person that has felt like a hard struggle in my life has been appointed by God for a purpose! He wants to teach me something, or He wants to redirect me for reasons that I clearly cannot see at the time. NOTE this: “I could not see at the time!”  Yet, when I trusted Him (all that He asks), and continued to move on . . . noticing the boulder, blessing the boulder in my soul (yes, this takes faith 🙂 I have lived long enough to see, and continue to see, all of the blessings of the boulder!

What boulder is in your path right now? What invitations does the boulder give you?

Ask the Spirit of the living Christ to help you  . . .

In prayer, stand beside the boulder and ask Jesus to come and give you the power to bless it  . . .

Now move forward as He directs. The path continues according to His perfect design. And you, have just received a blessing that hindsight will fully reveal. May His love go with you . . .

And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them” (Romans 8:28). 

The face that transforms . . .

Sacred Signpost #7: Seeing

The human soul was created to need a face. Babies that are deprived of mother’s face suffer deeply throughout their lives from attachment deprivation. Yet, there is hope for everyone!  A face remains that heals the bewildered heart . . . day after day after day. Our personal God, Creator of the universe, reveals more and more of Himself as we seek Him.

Even long before the birth of Christ, he Psalmist David heard the Lord ask him to seek His face. He cried out to God: “Hear, O LORD, when I cry aloud; be gracious to me and answer me! You have said, ‘Seek my face.’ My heart says to You, ‘Your face, LORD, do I seek‘” (Psalm 27: 7-8). 

There is mystery here!  Although God told Moses that no one can see His face and live (Exodus 33:20), we are also told that God used to speak to Moses “face to face” as a man “speaks to his friend” (Exodus 33:11). Surely our infinite God “who alone is immortal and who lives in unapproachable light, whom no one has seen or can see . . . ” (I Timothy 6:16) humbles Himself and takes on the form of a servant to commune with those who love and seek Him.

Further, it is important to understand that in seeking Him, and seeing His ever emerging form . . . that we ourselves are steadily transformed into His own image! As the Scriptures teach us: “we will be like him, for we will see him as he really is” (I John 3:2).